I agree with Sarah. Sadly there are some men who will woo a woman leader for sex or, as Nikki Haley implies, brag about exploits that never occurred - all with an ulterior motive of making the woman look bad. To guard against damage from this type of attack, in my new book, Cracking the Double Standard Code I urge readers to develop personal rules that include avoiding unnecessary socializing. Advice offered in the chapter There is no Morning After Pill includes minimizing after-hours contact with coworkers - and using aides as confidants is definitely a no-no. While those alleged really long conversations held in the wee hours between Nikki Haley and one of her accusers are not proof of an affair, it is demonstrative to women leaders how they must guard against their personal lives spilling into their professional lives to avoid exploitation by opponents. June Werdlow Rogers www.urnotcrazy.com