Pope Francis gave parents the go ahead to smack children - if their dignity is preserved. His remarks during his weekly general audience in Rome have provoked social media outcry with many accusing the Argentinian pontiff of supporting violence.
Pope Francis devoted his latest homily to the role of fathers in
the family. Up to 7,000 people gathered in the Pope Paul VI Hall
on Wednesday to hear it.
"One time, I heard a father in a meeting with married couples
say `I sometimes have to smack my children a bit, but never in
the face so as to not humiliate them,'" the pope recalled.
"How beautiful!" the pontiff noted. "He knows the
sense of dignity! He has to punish them but does it justly and
moves on," he added.
Pope Francis says that spanking is okay under certain conditions although he did not clarify whether it should be considered foreplay.
— Adam Wolf (@AdamWolf77) February 6, 2015
The endorsement of parental punishment was slammed by children's
rights groups.
“It is disappointing that anyone with that sort of influence
would make such a comment,” the coordinator of the Global
Alliance to End Corporal Punishment of Children, Peter Newell,
said.
According to the founder of the National Association for People
Abused in Childhood, Peter Saunders, the pope's remarks were
misplaced.
“I think that is a very misguided thing to have said and I’m
surprised he said it, although he does come up with some howlers
sometimes,” Saunders, who was abused for over five years by
two Catholic priests as a child in London, told the Telegraph.
In December, Saunders was appointed by Pope Francis to his new
Vatican commission on protecting children from abusive priests.
“It is a most unhelpful remark to have made and I will tell
him that,” he added.
@Pontifex I have 2 children w/spec needs. All spanking taught them was that someone who loves them, hit them. Where's the dignity in that?
— Sally Paulsen (@salpaulsen) February 5, 2015
The Rev. Thomas Rosica, who collaborates with the Vatican press
office, said the pope wasn't speaking in favor of violence
against children, however.
"Who has not disciplined their child or been disciplined by
parents when we are growing up?" Rosica told AP in an email.
"Simply watch Pope Francis when he is with children and let
the images and gestures speak for themselves!"
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Last month the pontiff offended large Catholic families by saying
that there was no need to breed 'like rabbits'. He
cautioned for 'responsible parenthood', saying three
children was 'about right'.
The president of the Central Association of German Rabbit
Breeders, Erwin Leowsky, responded that "it is unacceptable
that the reproduction of the world's poorest people is compared
with the reproduction of rabbits," noting that he was
speaking as a private person, not as a representative of the
breeders' association. Pope Francis later said he was “truly
sorry” that his remarks “caused such
disorientation.”
#PopeFrancis has given permission! Spanking kids has god's stamp of approval. Parents and priests everywhere are smiling. #catholic
— Robert Hardcastle (@FreeFromTheMan) February 5, 2015
@FreeFromTheMan I am so ashamed of him. And I feel abandoned. He claims to want to protect children. He is ignorant. @Pontifex#PopeFrancis
— I X (@irns53) February 5, 2015
The Catholic Church's position on corporal punishment came under fire last year during a grilling by a UN human rights committee monitoring implementation of the UN treaty on children's rights. In its final report, the committee members recommended that the Holy See amend its own laws to specifically prohibit corporal punishment of children, including within the family, and to find ways to step up the ban in Catholic schools and institutions worldwide.
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The recommendations were triggered by reports of widespread physical abuse and use of corporal punishment in Catholic-run schools and institutions, particularly in Ireland. The Vatican had insisted it never promoted corporal punishment, saying it had no way to enforce any kind of ban on its use in Catholic schools, over which it has no jurisdiction. It noted that according to church teaching, parents "should be able to rectify their child's inappropriate action by imposing certain reasonable consequences for such behavior, taking into consideration the child's ability to understand the same as corrective."
The Holy See isn't the only signatory to the convention that has been questioned on the issue. Britain received a similar recommendation to cancel its law allowing parents to spank their kids when it came before the UN committee in 2002.
Up to 39 countries, from Germany to South Sudan, forbid corporal punishment in all forms and settings. This includes at home, where most violence usually occurs. In 19 US states, it's still legal for personnel in schools to practice ‘paddling’, while parents can legally strike their child as long as the force is ‘reasonable’.