Pen-pals and pensioners: new website helps those in need
Published: 12 May, 2009, 08:50
TAGS: Russia, Human rights
Like many developed nations, Russia's population is getting older and fewer children are being born. As a result, more people are finding themselves alone as they approach the end of their lives.
Many reach retirement age in Russia with almost nothing to show for their lives. No money, no friends, and no relatives – this is the common story for the inhabitants of a retirement home.
“Both of my children died a long time ago. I had two sisters and a brother, but they are now also gone. Now I just have myself. And it feels terrible,” says 69-year-old Nina Reutova, who has been in a care-home since last September.
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Her most precious belongings nowadays are her memories and a bundle of letters that started coming not so long ago from a girl Anya, who she had never known before.
The nurse Elena Gureeva says that “Nina is always so happy when she receives a letter or a card. We read the letters together over and over again, and then I help her write the reply.”
Just a day ago Nina celebrated her birthday. At the time she eagerly awaited a letter from Anya, but this time Anya decided to travel over 250 km from her home to meet Nina in person for the first time in her life and to greet her. Needless to say, their emotions overwhelmed them and the pair chatted away for hours.
As a result of seeing those eager to share their kindness with their elders, someone has started a website (in Russian) where the details of those who have nobody left in the world are posted.
The leader of this movement Liza Oleskina says that “Most of the people deal with children, but there are very few who look into the problems of the elderly, who really need to feel our support.”
There are now about 300 such pen-pals like Nina and Anya in Russia. Everyone is free to join. After you find the person desperate for a friendly soul on the internet site, all it takes is 20 minutes a month and less than a dollar for a stamp with an envelope. The main condition is that it has to be at least one letter per month.
In facilities for the elderly, nurses look after those who have lost their youth and energy. They say that the main thing they have to deal with is the loneliness of these people, and the positive impact that just a single letter or a postcard can have that comes to a person who has nobody left in this world cannot be underestimated.
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I am a regular viewer of Russia Today and saw your item on 'Pen-Pals and Pensioners.' I am not Russian and do not speak Russian, but I would like to know if there is any way I could become a Pen-pal to a Pensioner. I would like to know if there is any possibility of me being able to write to someone in English and have it translated for them into Russian. Thank you Regards, Mary Parry













I find your Pen-Pals and pensioners very interesting and a great concept to help the elderly. I am looking for my family in Russia [mainly Kursk] and thought maybe of my family may be on your list. I would also like to be a pen-Pal. My mothers story: Valentina Veryutina [left] daughter Astrid [right] 1950 in Vienna [do you know us] Valentina Veryutina was born in Kursk on 30 June 1927 to Vassili and Anne Verjutina. She was the youngest daughter of eight daughters [names unknown, who may have been doctors/nurses]. Vassili Veryutina died when [Valentina] was only nine months old. At birth, she was given to Tatyana Himel, [Anne’s sister, because Tatyana could not have children of her own] in the years before the war, they lived on a dairy farm with a big orchard, on the outskirts of Kursk. In 1942 at the age of 14, Valentina was taken by the Germans to Austria to work in their factories. It is not known what happened to her sisters or why she was the only girl taken. On arrival in Austria, they took her with 25 other girls to a big shed where they stripped them naked, gave them a medical, then. transported them to an old coffee house were all the windows were painted [in Vienna/Innsbruck]. At 7 am, they trucked the girls to a factory, where they peeled potatoes for 12 hours. The girls were then transported back to the coffee house. They fed them bread with jam and coffee. However, on the train from Kursk, Valentina hurt her leg , at the time did not notice due to her fear. After a month working at the camp, she could not walk and constantly fell over. They plastered her leg and told her she could go home, because she was no use to them. She was so excited, but it did not happen. Instead, they took her to another camp - a very bad camp place-sick people everywhere - and fed the inmates with black bread and white turnip. The plaster stayed on for the rest of her interment. She could not eat the white turnip even to save her own life. She got weaker and weaker. After six months in this camp [name unknown] Valentine’s aunty Tatyana [who, at the time Valentina thought was her mother] ask permission to take her home. Tatyana was married to a German, and permission granted. Tatayna took Valentina to a hospital where they treated her for malnutrition and a gangrene foot. Eventually Tatyana took her home where they both worked in a factory. It is unknown if home was Vienna or Innsbruck. In 1945, Valentina fell pregnant -she was seventeen years of age at the time [she said rape, Peter Petrovich LY9L5 Seefeld Innsbruck] with me [Astrid Werjutina] to an American GI [father unknown on my birth certificate]. My mother told me he was an American born Jew, but unsure of the truth. After the war ended, Valentina moved back to Vienna worked in childcare and as a bank clerk for the Americans for that period. I was born in Vienna 19th February 1946. In July 1950, my mother immigrated with to Australia. I have spent many years pondering my identity and wondering about my Russian family. I also need to know why my mother would not tell me what happened to her or why she had abandoned her family. My life is another story [not pleasant], but from the small pieces of information my mother did give me over the years, I have been able to paste together some of her life in Russia. I am hopeful in find my family [aunts, uncles and cousins], but I need community help. I have always felt like half a person. I will not feel complete until I achieve my quest. In Australia, we are a large family and we would all like to know our genetic roots and the history surrounding my mother’s era. Unfortunately, we have no Russian Photos.